Every guy who loves you very much owns the same thing...

Yes, every man behind every woman/ladies owns a little attribute of which they will never know... this is called in 自卑 in mandarin, a lover with low self esteem. :(

This is just a feeling, it exist because the guy thinks that he cannot give enough happiness to the girl he loves. Every time he hurts her, this feeling will come. Plus during arguements, when a girl says something hurtful like "go away, i don't like you, i hate you and etc", the girl actually meaned the opposite. Contrary to that, the guy will take it as it is, because they are sad enough for not being able to provide happiness to the girl he loves, he will feel 自卑.

Situation is like:
Girl: Go away I don't want you anymore (She just wants to be pampered and chased back by the guy).
Guy: Thinks for a while, looks into her eyes and wonder does she really mean it.
Girl: (Waiting impatiently) Go away!!!
Guy: (Getting sad, confused and feeling 自卑) Ok I will!!
Girl: Girl cries and sad because the guy didn't chase her back.

Just like this song I'm going to share to you, the feeling of a person who feels that he couldn't give enough happiness to his lover.



谁能夠相信我却玩出真心
从此已不再有低庄身分
这贱人最低等 已不再合襯
情愿做你啲情人

这双手你会捉紧吗惊惶吗
还是要有嗰距离
只可惜我俩喜欢斗气
已经生气还是想起你

我这种废的爱人
怎可以令你开心
只会令到爱人伤得更深
你碰上未能抽身
就当你永不够运

我这种废的爱人
怎得到伴侶欢心
让我越爱你也伤得更深
太天真继续捉紧
但我要你这情人
怪爱你太深

The next time you said something hurtful back to him, remember this..... when you asked him to go away, remember to always pull back your rope if you do love him. It's like a tug-o-war game. It goes like that...

Situation is like:
Girl: Go away I don't want you anymore (She just wants to be pampered and chased back by the guy).
Guy: Thinks for a while, looks into her eyes and wonder does she really mean it.
Girl: (Waiting impatiently) Go away!!!
Guy: (Getting sad, confused and feeling 自卑) Ok I will!! (and came back after that)
Girl: :D (show satisfaction and happiness)

It's not just you in a relationship, both sides should feel happy and content.