
One string, has two ends, if you play a tug~o~war game with it, one side will win. But in a relationship, if one side wins means both side lose.
So, if a relationship is to survive, nobody should win in a tug~o~war game. This is true for lover's relationship and also friendship. Lover's relationship is more serious than friendship, that's why many people can't take it when somebody is winning the in tug~o~war game and somebody losing.
Everyday we can see people thinking that winning in a tug~o~war relationship is equal to having a good relationship, but end up it seems that they didn't know much about winning = losing, but if draw = winning!
Sometimes, don't say you love me if you don't mean it, because i will do something stupid like, believe it. Heard from some where before?
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